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What Would YOU Do?!?!
From Autism Speaks:
The video is available at What Would You Do? on ABC.com.
Search for Autistic Child Defended in Cafe.
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Its a pretty special video to see if you haven't already.
On Friday, April 13th, the episode of ABC's What Would You Do? featured Lisa Goring, Autism Speaks Vice President of Family Services, and her son Andrew, 15. During the segment, actors playing a family of four, including a boy with autism, were eating in a restaurant, as the cameras looked to capture the responses of fellow customers to behaviors displayed by the boy.
Waiting
Waiting to order food
Waiting for food to arrive
Waiting after for everyone else to finish eating
The video is available at What Would You Do? on ABC.com.
Search for Autistic Child Defended in Cafe.
(embedding code isn't working)
Its a pretty special video to see if you haven't already.
On Friday, April 13th, the episode of ABC's What Would You Do? featured Lisa Goring, Autism Speaks Vice President of Family Services, and her son Andrew, 15. During the segment, actors playing a family of four, including a boy with autism, were eating in a restaurant, as the cameras looked to capture the responses of fellow customers to behaviors displayed by the boy.
Do you avoid eating out because you have a child with autism, and it's just too stressful to take him to a restaurant? We have some tips to help you avoid some common headaches when dining out at a restaurant with an autistic child.
(In the comments section below the article, please share your tried-and-true advice for managing meals out with an autistic or other special needs child! Other parents will appreciate the help.)
Pretty much everyone loves to be treated to a restaurant meal once in awhile. But when you're the parent (or grandparent) to an autistic child, dining out can sometimes be more hassle than it's worth -- for you, your child, and the people at the restaurant. But avoid it no longer! Here we offer some suggestions to deal with some of the most common issues parents face.
PROBLEM: YOUR AUTISTIC CHILD HAS A HARD TIME WITH CHANGE/VISITING NEW PLACES
There are various ways to help prepare your child for dining out. You can start with these baby steps:
- Practice the whole "eating out" experience at home first. Demonstrate reviewing a menu, ordering, coloring or enjoying another quiet pastime during the wait -- and remind him that it's important to stay in his seat.
- Have a rehearsal at a low-stakes establishment: a fast food place or salad bar/buffet establishment. Yes, the experience is a little different, but will help pave the way toward managing a meal at a typical restaurant.
- Visit a sit-down restaurant just after opening or during their slowest hours, so any problems you encounter are witnessed by as few people as possible. Consider staying only for a single course, maybe either appetizers or dessert.
Once your child (and you!) have mastered these steps, it's time for the litmus test: dining out at a realrestaurant.
When you're ready for the dining out adventure to begin, keep these suggestions in mind:
- If your child needs time to mentally prepare for a restaurant outing, let him know the plans as soon as they're set.
- Anticipate and explain changes if a place has been remodeled or you're going to another restaurant location of the same chain.
- Bring along food from home if needed, as well as any favorite toys, games or books.
- Have your kids use the bathroom before leaving the house so you can hopefully avoid grappling with the public restroom rules (or, worse -- a toilet aversion issue).
- Head off any problems at the pass by choosing a restaurant renowned for fast service (or at the very least, tell the server you're in a rush).
- Consider letting the server know of your child's special needs -- perhaps in the context of asking for speedy service, or to help explain why your son is completely ignoring the question, "So what would you like to drink, young man?"
- Stay at your child's side every moment -- and be sure not to get so caught up in the amazing nachos or a great conversation that you forget to pay attention to what he or she is doing. Autistic kids may not think twice about leaning over and swiping a few fries from the guy at the next table, or staring down the teenager in a nearby booth.
- Don't wait until juice has been spilled all over your pants before asking that your child's drink be served in a kiddie cup with a lid.
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Skills to Consider
This list of important skills to consider when going out to eat with your child with autism was compiled by Nassau Suffolk Services for Autism. *Note: You will need to tailor these based upon your child's abilities.
WaitingWaiting to order food
Waiting for food to arrive
Waiting after for everyone else to finish eating
Ordering Food
Making a food choice
Ordering a meal
Speaking at an appropriate volume
Appropriate language to order food
Making a food choice
Ordering a meal
Speaking at an appropriate volume
Appropriate language to order food
Sitting Appropriately
In the absence of non contextual vocalizations
In the absence of any inappropriate body movements
Sitting in an upright position
Keeping hands down
In the absence of non contextual vocalizations
In the absence of any inappropriate body movements
Sitting in an upright position
Keeping hands down
Eating Appropriately/Table Manners 
Pace of eating
Using utensils
Using a napkin
Chewing with mouth closed
Pace of eating
Using utensils
Using a napkin
Chewing with mouth closed
Social Skills
Having a conversation at the dinner table
Using excuse me, please, and thank you
Commenting on food choice
Accepting a denied request if food choice is unavailable
Having a conversation at the dinner table
Using excuse me, please, and thank you
Commenting on food choice
Accepting a denied request if food choice is unavailable
Other Skills
Using a public restroom
Using a public restroom
Resources
The New Social Story Book
by Carol Gray
"A Social Story™ describes a situation, skill, or concept in terms of relevant social cues, perspectives, and common responses in a specifically defined style and format. The goal of a Social Story™ is to share accurate social information in a patient and reassuring manner that is easily understood by its audience. Half of all Social Stories™ developed should affirm something that an individual does well. Although the goal of a Story™ should never be to change the individual’s behavior, that individual’s improved understanding of events and expectations may lead to more effective responses."
by Carol Gray
"A Social Story™ describes a situation, skill, or concept in terms of relevant social cues, perspectives, and common responses in a specifically defined style and format. The goal of a Social Story™ is to share accurate social information in a patient and reassuring manner that is easily understood by its audience. Half of all Social Stories™ developed should affirm something that an individual does well. Although the goal of a Story™ should never be to change the individual’s behavior, that individual’s improved understanding of events and expectations may lead to more effective responses."
Click here to visit The Gray Center website, and learn more about Carol Gray's Social Stories.
Social Story App: Pictello
Pictello is a simple way to create talking photo albums and talking books. Each page in a Pictello Story can contain a picture, up to five lines of text, and a recorded sound or text-to-speech using high-quality voices. Pictello is developed for all ages and skill levels, so it is easy to use and requires no reading skills to locate and read stories. Pictello offers an easy visual story creation wizard so everyone can use pictures and sound to share important moments in their lives. Pictello is a universal app and can, without extra costs, be used on iPhone, iPod touch and iPad!
itunes.apple.com (Cost: $18.99)
Pictello is a simple way to create talking photo albums and talking books. Each page in a Pictello Story can contain a picture, up to five lines of text, and a recorded sound or text-to-speech using high-quality voices. Pictello is developed for all ages and skill levels, so it is easy to use and requires no reading skills to locate and read stories. Pictello offers an easy visual story creation wizard so everyone can use pictures and sound to share important moments in their lives. Pictello is a universal app and can, without extra costs, be used on iPhone, iPod touch and iPad!itunes.apple.com (Cost: $18.99)
Visual Supports
Using visual supports during a meal has many benefits. It can reduce anxiety and makes the activity less overwhelming. Visual supports provide a visual representation of what is going to happen throughout an activity, breaking it down into steps that can be understood by the person.
An example of a visual schedule that can be used for an eating out activity- Display steps in a restaurant routine:
1. Waiting to be seated
2. Ordering my food
3. Waiting for my food to arrive
4. Getting ready to leave the restaurant
1. Waiting to be seated
2. Ordering my food
3. Waiting for my food to arrive
4. Getting ready to leave the restaurant
Visual Supports and Autism Spectrum Disorders
A tool kit from the Autism Treatment Network that introduces parents, caregivers, and professionals to visual supports and provides instruction on how to use them in everyday activities, schedules and tasks. The tool kit provides actual visual supports for parents to print, cut out and use, along with links to resources that provide more detailed information for those who want to go further. Anyone can download the Visual Supports and Autism Spectrum Disorder Tool Kit for free here.
A tool kit from the Autism Treatment Network that introduces parents, caregivers, and professionals to visual supports and provides instruction on how to use them in everyday activities, schedules and tasks. The tool kit provides actual visual supports for parents to print, cut out and use, along with links to resources that provide more detailed information for those who want to go further. Anyone can download the Visual Supports and Autism Spectrum Disorder Tool Kit for free here.
Visual Supports Apps
Model Me Kids: Going Places
Model Me Going Places™ is a great visual teaching tool for helping your child learn to navigate challenging locations in the community. Each location contains a photo slide show of children modeling appropriate behavior. 6 locations: Hairdresser, Mall, Doctor, Playground, Grocery Store and Restaurant.
Cost: Free
Model Me Kids: Going Places
Model Me Going Places™ is a great visual teaching tool for helping your child learn to navigate challenging locations in the community. Each location contains a photo slide show of children modeling appropriate behavior. 6 locations: Hairdresser, Mall, Doctor, Playground, Grocery Store and Restaurant.Cost: Free
First Then Visual Schedule
First-Then visual schedule application is designed for caregivers to provide positive behavior support. For individuals with communication needs, developmental delays, Autism or those who benefit from a structured environment; visual schedules serve to increase independence and lower anxiety during transitions through different activities.
Cost: $9.99
First-Then visual schedule application is designed for caregivers to provide positive behavior support. For individuals with communication needs, developmental delays, Autism or those who benefit from a structured environment; visual schedules serve to increase independence and lower anxiety during transitions through different activities.Cost: $9.99
Friday, April 27, 2012
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Olivia Gardner was a sixth grader in Northern California when her life began to unravel.
It started when she suffered an epileptic seizure in front of her classmates. Immediately, the name-calling began. The hallway insults and ridicule – “freak,” “retard,” “weirdo” – escalated into cyber-bullying when a few particularly nasty students set up an “Olivia Haters” website. One student dragged her backpack through the mud, and another whispered “Die Olivia” in her ear. The taunting was so bold that her tormentors distributed and wore “I Hate Olivia” bracelets.
Neither her parents nor school officials were able to shield Olivia from this sadistic abuse and changing schools didn’t help. The bullying followed her through two other schools until her parents decided home school was the only option.
Like many teenagers subjected to extreme bullying, Olivia seriously contemplated suicide. Olivia was not a weak girl and she had the love and support of her family, but relentless cruelty inflicted by mean-spirited teenagers and condoned by a much larger group, simply wore her down, leaviing her feeling helpless and hopeless.
Fortunately, this is only part one of Olivia’s story. Part two is much more uplifting.
A small local newspaper wrote a story about Olivia’s ordeal which caught the attention of two sisters – Emily and Sarah Buder, then 15 and 17 years old. The sisters never met Olivia, but their sense of compassion and justice ignited a desire to offer her personal support.
Their initial ambitions were no broader than that when they decided to write Olivia personal letters to lift her spirits. They also asked their friends to write letters as well, never imagining that their gesture of compassion would set off a chain reaction of support, encouragement, and love that ended in thousands of letters to Olivia, a worldwide anti-bullying movement, and a successful book Letters to Olivia, edited by Olivia and her new-found friends – the Buder sisters.
This is more than a story about the power of compassion; it’s a powerful case study about the nature of leadership and the power of young people to make a difference.
Emily and Sarah didn’t set out to start a movement or write a book – they simply saw a need and decided to do something.
All great instances of leadership start with a commitment to do something and a plan to mobilize others to help.
Emily and Sarah’s leadership are a model not only for young people but for anyone and everyone who sees a problem and wants to fix it.
Leaders don’t wait for others to do something; they take matters into their own hands.
The Buder sisters’ campaign made a huge difference in Olivia’s life and in the lives of thousands of other victims, bystanders, and bullies who wrote or read letters to Olivia. But their initiative also points the way to what might be the most effective remedy to the persistent problem of meanness and cruelty that inflicts daily misery on literally millions of teenagers. (A 2010 survey of more than 43,000 high school students by the Josephson Institute of Ethics revealed that nearly half — 47 percent — of all students report that were bullied, teased, or taunted in a way that seriously upset them in the past year. Fifty percent admitted that they had bullied someone in the same period.)
Though current efforts to address the bullying problem have been helpful, every solution devised and administered by adults falls short, not because of a lack of sincerity or concern, but because the inherent qualities of bullying – how it occurs, when it occurs and where it occurs — are simply not amenable to adult intervention. In fact, adult efforts often make things worse.
I’ve written before about the strategy of the Josephson Institute of Ethics’ CHARACTER COUNTS! initiative to address the issue not in terms of anti-bullying programs, but in terms of a comprehensive effort to create a school-wide culture of caring, where kindness and empathy simply leave no room for meanness and cruelty.
Who better than the students themselves to create this culture of caring? We are encouraging students engaged in student government, sports and other co-curricular activities to collaborate to design and administer a “We Stand Together” solidarity campaign to promote the principles of caring, compassion, and empathy, through assemblies, poster and video contests and other proactive activities including comprehensive efforts to prevent and discourage meanness in any form.
One way is to create a CHARACTER COUNTS! Kindness Corps (CCKC) of volunteer students who undertake the responsibility on buses and playgrounds, in the cafeteria, locker rooms, and hallways to protect potential victims by reminding fellow students of the student body’s commitment to kindness, and where reminders fail, to report fully all incidents to a student culture committee or school authorities.
If you want to help create this initiative at your school or simply want to learn more write us at westandtogether@jiethics.org.
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The Buder girls tell their own story in an article article in the Huffington Post
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Executive function is a set of mental processes that helps connect past experience with present action. People use it to perform activities such as planning, organizing, strategizing, paying attention to and remembering details, and managing time and space. If you have trouble with executive function, these things are more difficult to do. You may also show a weakness with working memory, which is like "seeing in your mind's eye." This is an important tool in guiding your actions. As with other learning disabilities, problems with executive function can run in families. It can be seen at any age, but it tends to become more apparent as children move through the early elementary grades. This is when the demands of completing schoolwork independently can trigger signs of a problem with executive function. The brain continues to mature and develop connections well into adulthood. A person's executive function abilities are shaped by both physical changes in the brain and by life experiences, in the classroom and in the world at large. Early attention to developing efficient skills in this area can be very helpful. As a rule, it helps to give direct instruction, frequent reassurance, and explicit feedback. How Does Executive Function Affect Learning?In school, at home, or in the workplace, we're called on all day, every day, to self-regulate behavior. Executive function allows us to:
What Are the Warning Signs of Executive Function Problems?A student may have problems with executive function when he or she has trouble:
How Are Problems with Executive Function Identified?There is no single test or even battery of tests that identifies all of the different features of executive function. Educators, psychologists, speech-language pathologists, and others use a variety of tests to identify problems. Careful observation and trial teaching are invaluable in identifying and better understanding weaknesses in this area. What Are Some Strategies to Help?There are many effective strategies to help with the problem of executive function challenges. Here are some methods to try: General Strategies
Managing Time
Managing Space and Materials
Managing Work
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Greetings: The Top 10 Ways Not to Greet Your Child
How do you like to be greeted? Doesn't it make you feel good and secure when someone gives you their 
full attention and an enthusiastic greeting? Well think about how your children feel when they see you in the morning, after school, or when you pick them up from an activity. At these times, loving communication is key.
full attention and an enthusiastic greeting? Well think about how your children feel when they see you in the morning, after school, or when you pick them up from an activity. At these times, loving communication is key.
So, here are the top 10 ways not to greet your child:
- You're on the phone
- You're texting
- You're on your computer
- You're checking your calendar
- Asking what homework they have
- Correcting them as soon as you see them
- Bringing up something they recently did wrong
- Not making eye contact with them
- Not smiling at them
- Letting your bad mood make you grouchy with them
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Strategies for Meeting All Students' Needs
Whether you're a special education teacher or not, you likely teach students who are on the autism spectrum or who have learning disabilities, dyslexia, ADHD, anxiety disorders, or emotional disabilities.
Differentiating instruction for such students can be challenging. But as an urban middle school teacher with more than 30 years of experience, I've identified some strategies that increase the chances that we're meeting all students' needs on a daily basis.
Collaborate with colleagues. I currently work with a teacher team that is well-synchronized when it comes to serving diverse learners.
As a learning disabilities teacher, I ensure that, from day one, all teachers are familiar with our 6th grade students' individualized education plans (IEPs) and necessary modifications.
Two sections of students in our grade are co-taught by special education faculty and content-specific teachers. Our paraprofessional and I alternate each day between the two sections. We move from class to class alongside our students, carrying binders with copies of all student materials so that we can co-teach alongside our colleagues.
Throughout the year, I co-plan with teachers, discussing tests, quizzes, projects and just day-to-day routines. We work on progress reports, reflect on our teaching strategies, and share concerns about students who may be struggling.
Cultivate consistency. For some of our 6th grade students, the shift to middle school is their first experience with "changing classes" throughout the day. Some consistency across classes can be helpful for students who have IEPs and those who simply need familiar routines and structure.
In each class, the general education teacher posts an agenda for the day on the board. And all classes begin with some kind of opportunity for students to review material or make the bridge to a new topic. A "science starter," for example, might require students to describe what phase of the moon occurs during a solar eclipse, or math class may begin with a quick problem that asks students to translate fractions into decimals. This provides all students with the opportunity to connect the class with previous learning.
The homework, posted on the board, is always explained verbally and accompanied by reminders to "take out your agendas and copy this down." Co-teachers circulate the classroom to ensure each student is copying information correctly.
We use common policies and procedures across classes. For example, if students forget to turn in major projects or take tests when they are absent, they'll find an "IOU" task listed on the blackboard.
Develop a student-centered mindset. Our efforts to boost learning are most effective when we share the same philosophy: It's about the kids, not us.
From the English/language arts teacher to the art teacher, all of us know about students' modifications: "who needs what" for tests, quizzes, classwork, and homework. Most students with learning disabilities (along with many of our English-language learners) use word banks when completing homework, classwork, and tests. For students who have difficulty copying, teachers provide printed copies of all notes, although they expect the students to try note-taking (often a goal in their IEPs). Some readers have access to novels on CDs. In math class, some use math reference sheets, a multiplication chart, and calculator—even on tests.
But a "student-centered mindset" goes beyond initial modifications: We pay close attention to individual students' progress and adjust our approaches throughout the year. If a student is struggling, our response isn't, "Well, that doesn't surprise me!" or "I've done my part—oh well." Instead, it's, "Why is this student struggling and what can we do to help?"
For example, sometimes it turns out that a student hasn't done her work because she needs a less distracting environment or additional guidance in understanding the project. We respond by offering opportunities for her to get an early start on projects and long-term assignments, both during and after school.
Our 6th grade team also made this decision: If any student performs poorly on a test, we analyze the data, then work with him or her individually or in a small group to re-teach the skills and concepts. Then students have the opportunity to retake the test after school or at lunchtime.
Set aside time to focus on study skills and extra support. Most students with IEPs attend a class that focuses on development of organizational and study skills. We also use this time to review concepts and guide students in understanding homework assignments. Because our paraprofessional and I have been observing and supporting students in all of their classes, we can make strategic decisions about how to structure this time.
Use multiple forms of assessment. Tests are never more than 35 to 40 percent of a child's grade (which also includes consideration of classwork, homework, participation/preparation, and projects). This ensures multiple opportunities to demonstrate knowledge and understanding in a variety of ways.
Draw on other professionals' expertise. Serving all students effectively requires us to pull in others promptly when students need specialized assistance. We have to be aware of when it's time to do so—and whom to contact. Our team regularly calls on our speech and language therapist, reading teachers, occupational therapist, school psychologist, and guidance counselors to advise us or to work with students on specific issues.
Partner with families. Last, but certainly not least, it's critical to involve families in the process of reaching all students, as some of my Teacher Leaders Network colleagues have been discussing this month at Teaching Ahead. Our 6th grade team's weekly common planning time provides an opportunity for families to meet with us as a group. We're flexible—if a parent or guardian is unable to come into the school, we set up phone meetings, check-ins with the team over email, and/or weekly progress reports.
I work with a great team this year—and I shudder to think that some of you may be reading this and thinking, "Yeah, this would be useful, if I had different (fill in the blank: administrators, colleagues, support staff, planning time)."
I know what you mean—I've been there—but I also think that you can, as Gandhi put it, "be the change you wish to see in the world." Be the one to push for common planning time (and to use it well). Be a dissenting voice when others say a particular student is a failure. Be the one who inspires colleagues to think outside the box about how to support that student. Be a teacher who is committed to helping all students succeed. You are not alone.
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